Many of the women I've dated since aren't like that at all and it still shocks me. I had dinner with one this weekend and she said "the waitress is so pretty". I almost hit the floor as I was used to placing an order and not looking at them..
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I wouldn't say he used you, but he certainly got something out of it...hopefully you did too. He was cold for a majority of the date, which I presume was kind of a fixup date. At some point you connected, things went well, sex ultimately happened, and then he went back to his ways. You're left feeling rather rejected and feeling used. Understandably so, but you fell into bed with someone who was pretty standoffish a majority of the night, and he certainly didn't adjust his behavior for his unexpected guest that was pretty awesome at some point. This is not to say he didn't like you or he was using you. Maybe he's so set in his ways, he's not worth pursuing any further. He seems really closed off. These friends of yours? They shouldn't be fixing him up with women if he is so wrapped up in his routine, he can't bend a little for coffee and chitchat before sending you home, make you feel welcome and wanted..
So from the very beginning the guy could be wishing that she didn't have the extra pounds. And when the relationship is in effect, he's going to try and get her to lose the weight so he can be more attracted to her..
It's all good and you get the body all in one pic.
Looking for a special person to spend lots of time with. To spoil and make happy, to eventually become one , and know each others thoughts and desires.To know what our partner is thinking and..
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FINANCIALLY SECURE, MATURE, LOVING, RESPONSIBLE MOM WITH GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR SEEKS SAME QUALITY IN A MAN TO SHARE LIFE WITH. MUST LOVE KIDS, I HAVE A 8 YR OLD AND A 11 YR OLD WHO ARE MY WORLD. I..
Not necessarily saying that. But, we men are soaked in testosterone. Obtaining sex is a deep, deep drive for us. I guess the reason why i say we rarely worrying about being used in that sense, is because the drive is so strong, I don't think we necessarily put that much value into it emotionally..
Hi..i am easy going honest and caring i am a one man woman with a lot of respect for my man i like swimming cooking and walking on the beach holding hand..
I started this thread out of the fear of being used for convenience, but I am now able to use that fear to rationalize that he no longer sees me as anything more than a reliable safety net. I'm hopeful for the both of us moving on without each other and eventually become regular friends..
Braces get me every time. :).
I apologize, you are one of, if not the nicest person on LS!.