Either ask her about it or move on..
Easyguy14, those two you mentioned are what I've noticed too. Unfortunately too many look at dating sites as "for losers" and thus refuse to try them, or try to secretly join hoping their friends and coworkers won't run across them. Some also get the idea that since they are taking what they call a "step down", that they'll only go for the "upper echelon" men and women..
Because the rating system is useless. I've accidentally hit the one star on pics when I was trying to click the next arrow. Don't pay attention to it..