Then SHE brought up the whole idea of coming to visit me, in a email that included things such as; "... I really like you a LOT ... I wanna see you again - SOON ... I haven't been able to sleep - thinking about you ...".
Exactly, his behaviour mimics how we spoke when we started dating..
left crushes right.
Also after our date I always make it a point that I thank the guy for treating me. I make sure he knows that his nice gesture was appreciated..