I am not saying that there is anything wrong with this behavior. But it may appear to be wrong to the woman you would have longed for to get in a LTR. She may not have the same moral standards on such issues, as you are displaying now..
1 & 2 :-).
He hasnt tried to hold my hand or touch me in anyway and no attempt at a kiss..
If you go on this trip and he pays, this will jump start the timeline for your relationship. How fast do you want to go?.
could that be because she's leaning toward the camera, resulting in an optical illusion?.