Its not healthy to focus so much on your relationship in that you should maintain a life balance to help you grow as a person. You may not be having problems now, but I believe that any issues that start to develop will grow at an accelerated rate without you even realising there are issues present – things get distorted in an unnatural environment so you don’t even realise there are problems until its too late to fix. Spending time with friends can act as a buffer and a ‘control’ to make your relationship happier and balanced. It seems that you do have some issues already...
so much vareity.
Next they told me several stories of couples who met, fell in love, and were married, and now have children. It seemed they were trying to show me how people can find happiness in marriage..
The guys I meet socially just don't behave like these guys online. They are better mannered and kinder. They seem interested in me not just sex. They are literate and intelligent. I might not feel attracted to them but that's a different issue. The guys online are self-selecting to a degree. Is it just that guys online behave differently because they can or are the majority really more dodgy than those one meets naturally in the outside world?.
I think you should continue but with a different mindset. Go into these encounters with a light heart and don't take anything too seriously at first. The goal should be just to get out there and connect with people for a mutual fun time. If it develops into a long term relationship then great... but don't put pressure on yourself that everyone you meet has to be THE ONE..
You need to take some control of your own life which involves self discipline..
Your time is important...so is mine!!..
Also the hours he works are at night and not always the same, so that also causes chaos in his very busy schedule..
I'm not looking to "hookup" with any of these girls, just seeing what can be had. I didn't use my regular email account, I made a new hotmail one and didn't put my name into it..
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Hi good evening I am new to this forum and this is now my side of the story. It was my boyfriend that inform me about his posts as well as his friend writing for him here which I'm aware. I just needed to vent out now so please be patience, he did betrayed in the worst possible way. No I did not dump him as I'm sure many women out there would have and now we are both in counseling working this out..
Me: Professional, funny, fun to be with. I have many interests but am mostly looking for a laid back woman, someone not under too much pressure, for movies, dining, hiking, just hanging out. I'm not..
I know they don't like being called cute. But cute IS hot to me..
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