Having been used to paying for myself, my ex was a very new experience, and since I naturally can sometimes be averse to people spending money on me, it took a while for me to stop being so worked up and feeling terrible about it. If I tried to grab the check he'd wrestle it out of my hands. I eventually accepted that it was something he enjoyed doing. And then towards the end, came the fights and the insinuations about his paying for me and I thought "oh. okay. yep. gonna hold it over my head that you paid, even when I tried to. Thanks.".
He says that he is going to prove himself to me. he admits being an idiot. he cried his eyes out when he saw what he had done to me. he says that in the future, i might look back on this and see it as a good thing because he will make my future perfect..
It is all about underscoring your uniquenesses. Unfortunately, while men are straining to recognize the unique appearances of women all around, theeeeeeeeeeeey are far too often attempting to conform and bring their appearances in line with those of all other women!!.