I agree with everything and everyone who posted here, but decided to be really introspective and play devil's advocate:.
For me, no opposite sex friendship is worth killing a great relationship..
It would also be interesting to see if the OP even eats at banh mi or ramen stalls (and everyone knows that the best banh mi and ramen come from stalls, not restaurants). Sounds to me like they might be too "low brow" for her..
Corny picture... ;).
Great HP everyone, way to vote! :D.
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Originally Posted by zetkin.
He sounds mature. Perhaps you should ask yourself why you equate jealousy with caring and desire?.
I hope that inspired OP a bit. Putting in enough effort is a way to show your sincerity, but watch for the balance. Being too eager will definitly scare the hell out of some people. There are always girls looking for people to cling on, so there isn't always a black and white answer..
Users that have reuploaded their own rejected pics and the date the pic was uploaded the first time (read the FAQ):cnjm13 (10/7).
Faved for righty!.
No need to get huffy and next her, just see where it goes, it may not go anywhere, but keep the lines open just in case..
If you can't get your mind off these things and they turn you off then it's probably a good idea to stop seeing her. Why get her more deeply involved when you are turned off?.
I've never been on this forum before strangely, I just found those links in another thread (about guys online dating being futile)..
I'm not looking for a relationship but equally am not up to rejection, due to my size, yet. I'm still vulnerable due to being dumped (11 year relationship)..
im just a cool down to earth dude that keep drama and stress away from my lif..
Admitting that you have insecurity and dealing with your insecurity are remarkably different..
OP, you have valid reason to at least be on your toes. At first, I thought maybe this was just some random dude on IG, but if they're communicating, there's at least some deception going on. At best, it's inappropriate and showing a lack of boundaries. Rather than shut down the guy's innuendo, she encouraged it..