Incident 2: 3 weeks after the first incident we go out to see her friend play at a club. I buy us drinks and she gets really drunk. In front of me she takes out her phone and text this guy she dated over a year ago before me and deletes the text infront of me. I confront her about it and she denied it. The guy texts back and she denies ever texting him so I text him with her phone asking who texted first and he says haha you did. She deleted that too. I confronted her about this the next morning when she was sober and she felt terrible and promised to not drink alot anymore. She doesnt know why she texted that guy and says he means nothing. She deleted all previous people she dated from her phone. The thing that hurts the most is that the day prior she was telling me she likes me better than all guys shes dated and doesnt think of anyone after I asked about guys from her past. She says that because we had this conversation subconsciously she thought of him and texted him to see what he was doing..
people. treat. you. the. way. they. feel. about. you..
You should tell her so that she's no longer played for a fool. But do you even care about her? You've been sleeping with her man and didn't exactly find the kindest way to let her know that her man is cheating. If you do tell her, be kind, truthful, and apologetic..
Hi I am English and living in north west wales I am a masterfull person looking for submisive female. But that total control requires a lot of trust too. Certainly, I'm no bully or one of those guys..
Your results will NEVER be different if all you're doing is stopping the current sleazy behavior and then forgiving him. All you've shown him is that he can do it again and again and again - and there are NO consequences for it..
I AM better without her..
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