I am P..
It just seems like you are always strategizing and plotting on how to further things and steer them romantically with these girls, rather than enjoying a natural candence to dating with a woman who is your peer. It just seems like you are picking women that then force you to push a stone up hill, rather than meeting and dating women who return your interest and goals from the get-go..
And yet, for some reason, we feel rejected by these losers and end up asking ourselves how we might change so that they will respond better to us. They wont - ever. Our only task here is to push them aside as quickly as possible so that the space around you will be clear for the right one to come along..
Gap - Keep trying man. No one ever got penalized for submitting pics that don't get through the approval process. As long as you aren't trying to upload obvious crap, just keep trying and see what most people tend to vote on..
Q2. is a one off really a bad thing?.