If I absolutely HAD to choose, though, yeah, I'd go for 10 years older, for the abovementioned reasons..
my translation: He must go because you are not worthy, and don't look good. whereas I do look good, so my man doesn't go..
Is he worth it after he has been rude?.
I'm not proud of what I'm about to say, but this is what happened next...
Do you need ideas on what to write... or just opinions about your scenario?.
no i don' think so. being physically attracted to your cousin isn't a weird thing. yeah my cousin is freaking hot...but would i ever do anything with her? hell no...that would make it weird...you can't decide who you are attracted to and it really isn't his fault he may have found her physically attractive at one time...but he made the choice to not act upon that attraction, you should see that as a positive thing. I think you are blowing this way out of porportion.
The other day I was watching a TV/talk show and the topic was about looks. A few of the women mentioned that although physical attraction is important, they would prefer not to date a man much better looking than themselves regardless of personality..