why did you have no pride? you restarted conversation, so blame yourself. people don't change. probably the same loser from a year and a half ago and now he knows you can still be a toy for him..
"as for the marriage thing I will put some more thought into it once you and I settle down and see how we get along on a day to day basis when we live together. I do think about it though and I love you to death but before I get ahead of myself I want to see how this goes personally before I jump into such a long term commitment. I think you will need to see how this goes also. This will be a good test on how much we love each other. ".
would love to see more of her.
Arcanum, I totally understand how you are feeling. My situation is a bit different than yours, yet similar in a way. My bf was in love with his female friend before we met but she turned him down, and I think he still had feelings for her when we started our relationship. When we were already in the I-love-you phase, we met her at the local mall. He introduced her as "his best friend, by far best friend" and I was just introduced by my name grr. Although she "didn't want him", she called him every single time we were together! His first "I love you" was introduced by half an hour talk about her! Once, we were at a dance class and he would have a look at his phone every five minutes - I knew it was because of her. He also hung out with her whenever he could. Then I said, ENOUGH, either you're going out for coffees with me, or with her, and the things stopped..
I predominately date women in their mid 20s-mid 30s. I have found that maturity is by no means “age related”. A lot of the women I have met in their mid 30s just don’t have their crap together (no career, no goals, can’t manage their finances, crazy exes, etc). In all fairness, I too didn’t get my crap together until I hit 35 so even if I had gotten married, I would probably have been divorced myself. So my desire to stay single until the last 4-5 years was mostly due to me realizing I wasn’t in a good position to be a great husband..
If you do enjoy his friendship and can share your perspective in a respectful way, perhaps, once he heals from the rejection, you can be friends in the true meaning of friendship, with shared interests and mutual support and caring. Good luck.
Since we're talking about great stomachs, how about righty?.
Dude, nice (y).
Quick witted , friendly , open minded , vers.bttm , very 4 nsa fun & safe play in the fl.keys. live in marathon , hiv neg - as of 10/21/201..
I agree with aussiejack. Go and get some outside help..
Everything is pointing toward a future in which the relationships that last, will be the ones where the man and the woman sit down across the table and ask each other questions about what they want in a relationship, checking off boxes on their notepads in a cold, businesslike fashion. Then if they both check enough boxes on their notepads, the ice melts. Simple as that..
Those eyes give me chills o.o.
I am not looking to have her as a girlfriend. I just don't want to waste anymore time on her. She needs to find another tampon..
But hey, if you like it, I love it..
Wish she showed her face.