When you say things like this, I can only assume you've never been to a club. Carrying in chocolates to a club is just a socially awkward thing to do. But barring that, he was obviously using it as an excuse to check on her. Bringing the chocolates isn't what makes me consider him insecure. Neither is showing up early. It's that he can't just admit why he wanted to show up early had nothing to do with chocolates. And my theory that he's insecure is supported by what he's willing to put up with from his gf..
And I echo some of the comments about quality over quantity. There are a lot of women (and men) out there with low intelligence, low self esteem, tons of baggage, addictions, "daddy issues," etc. Getting with a lot of those types isn't exactly a badge of honor..
very very mice lovely young lady!.